Are you using a plastic-specific filler, or just a general automotive one? You will be wanting to use a plastic-specific filler as it is far more flexible and won't crack when the plastic around it flexes. Beyond this, are you managing to get the shape right with the filler, but just getting a visible edge where the filler ends? If this is the case that is pretty normal, you just need to use a high-fill primer over the top - it is like a really thick paint, and a couple of coats sanded back will fill thar edge out and make it disappear, then a thinner primer, rub back making sure not to rub through, and top coat.